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What to Do if You’re Arrested for Domestic Violence During a Divorce: Protect Your Rights and Future

Facing Domestic Violence Charges During a Divorce? Here’s How to Protect Yourself

Being arrested for domestic violence is overwhelming under any circumstances, but if you’re also going through a divorce, the stakes are even higher. The legal process, the emotional strain, and the potential impact on child custody and property division can be devastating. But don’t panic—there are steps you can take to protect your rights and navigate both the criminal and family law systems effectively. As an experienced criminal defense attorney at Kersey Law, I’ve helped clients handle complex cases like these. In this guide, we’ll walk through exactly what to do if you’re arrested for domestic violence during a divorce and how to protect your future.

Stay Calm and Comply with Law Enforcement

Your Rights During an Arrest

If you’re arrested for domestic violence during your divorce, it’s critical to remain calm and comply with law enforcement. You have the right to remain silent and should avoid discussing the incident with the police until you have consulted with your attorney.

Avoid Making Statements That Could Be Used Against You

Anything you say can be used against you in court. Refrain from providing explanations or excuses until you have a criminal defense attorney present. Your words can easily be misinterpreted, so it’s best to keep silent and request an attorney immediately.

Contact an Experienced Criminal Defense Attorney Immediately

Domestic violence charges, especially during a divorce, can have serious legal consequences, including jail time, fines, and restraining orders. A qualified criminal defense attorney can help protect your rights and work to get the charges dropped or reduced.

How Kersey Law Can Help You

At Kersey Law, we have extensive experience in defending domestic violence cases and understand the additional complications a divorce can bring. Our legal team will build a strong defense and ensure that your rights are protected throughout both the criminal and family court proceedings.

How Domestic Violence Charges Can Affect Your Divorce

Impact on Child Custody

Domestic violence charges can severely affect child custody decisions. Family courts in California prioritize the safety of the child, and a domestic violence charge could lead to limited visitation or supervised custody. It’s crucial to defend your rights to maintain a role in your child’s life.

Impact on Property Division

A domestic violence charge can influence the division of assets during a divorce. If the court perceives one party as the aggressor, it may lead to a less favorable property settlement. Protecting your rights in both the criminal and family law courts is essential to avoid unfair outcomes.

Restraining Orders and Their Effects

If the alleged victim seeks a restraining order, it can restrict your movements and communication with your spouse and children. Complying with the order is critical, but you also have the right to challenge its validity.

Defending Against Domestic Violence Charges During a Divorce

Proving False Allegations

Unfortunately, false accusations of domestic violence are common in contentious divorce cases. Your attorney will gather evidence to show that the charges are unfounded or motivated by a desire to gain leverage in the divorce.

Self-Defense Claims

If you were acting in self-defense, your attorney can present evidence showing that you were not the aggressor. Witnesses, surveillance footage, or medical records can help support your claim.

Lack of Evidence

In many domestic violence cases, the prosecution lacks solid evidence to prove the charges. Your attorney will challenge the credibility of the accuser and expose any inconsistencies in their story to get the charges dropped.

The Role of Restraining Orders in Domestic Violence Cases

Complying with the Restraining Order

If a restraining order is issued, it’s critical to comply with its terms to avoid additional legal trouble. Violating the order could result in new charges and complicate both your criminal and divorce case.

How to Challenge a Restraining Order

You have the right to challenge the restraining order in court. Your attorney will help you present evidence that the restraining order is unnecessary or based on false allegations.

Coordination Between Your Criminal Defense Attorney and Family Law Attorney

If you have a family law attorney handling your divorce, it’s important that your criminal defense attorney works closely with them. Domestic violence charges can significantly impact the outcome of your divorce, and both legal strategies must be aligned to protect your interests.

Preparing for Court Appearances

Your criminal defense attorney will guide you through every step of the legal process, ensuring that you are fully prepared for court appearances and know what to expect. Having a solid defense strategy is key to minimizing the impact of the charges.

Steps to Take After Being Released from Custody

Gather Evidence for Your Defense

After being released, work with your attorney to gather evidence that supports your defense. This may include text messages, emails, photos, or witness statements that can prove your innocence or challenge the allegations.

Avoid Contact with Your Spouse

Even if the restraining order allows limited contact, it’s best to avoid direct communication with your spouse while the charges are pending. Any contact could be misinterpreted or lead to new accusations.

Being arrested for domestic violence during a divorce can feel overwhelming, but you don’t have to navigate this situation alone. With the right legal defense, you can protect your rights in both criminal and family law courts. At Kersey Law, we’re here to help you fight these charges and secure the best possible outcome. Contact us today for a confidential consultation and let us start building your defense.

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Meet Jamahl Kersey

Jamahl Kersey is a distinguished criminal defense attorney and the principal attorney at Kersey Law, a boutique law firm in San Diego. With a focus on criminal defense, Jamahl has built a reputation for his unwavering dedication to protecting his clients' rights and securing favorable outcomes in complex cases. Known for his strategic approach and thorough understanding of the law, he has successfully defended clients against various charges, including sex crimes and other serious offenses.

Beyond his legal practice, Jamahl is committed to supporting his community and providing educational resources to help individuals understand their legal rights. He regularly engages in discussions about criminal justice reform and is passionate about empowering young people to navigate potential legal challenges. Jamahl's dedication to his clients and community has established him as a trusted advocate and leader in the San Diego legal community.

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